Standardized Testing for Homeschoolers? Homeschool Update

 

Well, the time has come that I have dreaded for years. It is to give my oldest her standardized test. Here in the Belly of the Beast state, it is required to be given and sent with her final report for grade 5. I don't think they are necessary. To me, it puts the child in a boxed corner. Like a competition almost. It's like I have to rate her and I don't like it, however, we are still here so I have to do it. I know she will do well on her test, so I guess the problem is me. Did I teach her all the information? Did she retain it? Was I a good teacher? Etc. All these questions in my mind caused me to believe I wasn't a good enough teacher. However like I said in Monday's post, I am not going to give in to fear. I know she got this. Once she does accomplish this we are taking the entire summer off, just to enjoy ourselves from the load of school. So send positive thoughts her way, because her test is in a few days. Cheers to her for passing this test in advance🥂❤️💪.

*Update: Life has caused me to give her the test earlier, and she passed with flying colors, dogs, cats, and various raccoons. We are exhausted from the test. Me prepping her, and her for sitting through it to take it. But I'm proud of her and we will be enjoying our full summer break😎🎉🥂. 

Homeschooling in the natural

Today, I want to discuss the beauty of natural hair. I’ve heard stories of little girls and boys being taunted in school by teachers, or even having their hair cut because it stood out too much. This can bring insecurity to the mind of a child. As a homeschooling mama, it's my responsibility to teach my children that their hair is beautiful. It resembles nature as seen in the picture above. When our hair is in its natural state it can withstand all types of weather. I teach my children they are beautiful the way the Most High made them. I show them images of little girls and boys that look like them. There are not a lot of positive images of black boys. So I use the resources that are available to me and also he can see the greatness of his father. The image that my husband shows to his son is of great importance. He sees a man working hard for his family. He shows him how to handle conflict and teaches him the right way, even as a toddler. We as their parents are responsible for shaping their minds despite what the world may put forth. In homeschooling, they can embrace their beauty. It’s no comparison of looks, no need to compete in styles of dress. They are very comfortable. Even if you can’t physically homeschool, you can still teach your children that they are beautiful. Remember, we are responsible for the shaping of our children's minds. If you haven’t today tell your children how beautiful they are and let them know that their hair resembles the beauty of creation. Well, I hope you all have a great day, and please feel free to share with someone who may deal with insecurity. Maybe this can help them in some small way. 😀🌹